Monday, January 18, 2010
Christmas parties, new years fun and kids day!
Sunday, December 27, 2009
Christmas in Cambodia!eable
Monday, November 23, 2009
Life in Chiang Mai
Any one who has lived in SE Asia for any period of time will tell you that at some point this strange cloud forms over your brain, influencing the way you think and the decisions you make. You start to think a bit more slowly and speaking becomes chaotic and very difficult at times. For example, when talking to a friend I would normally ask him or her, "hey do you want to go grab some coffee with me?".... after two months in SE Asia it comes out something like this: "um so eating, me, food you? So, as you can imagine, there have been some funny moments over the past month, a few things I would have done differently, some things I hope remember forever and others that I hope to forget entirely.
There are so many things to update I don’t even know where to begin. I have now been working at The Garden of Hope for about a month, I teach English to 9 Thai children who will NOT be trafficked, I help lead a program for all of the 35 children at the garden, I help with administrative work and I network all over Chiang Mai connecting people. There are moments every day that overwhelm me to the point of frustration and yet are eventually balanced with the hope that lies all around me. My kids are such a joy, they all come from very poor and often times abusive homes. Their lives are far from my childhood experience and I am still trying to comprehend how they can smile as big as they do. This entry I will telltwo stories the first I shall call Café Pandau:
As much as I love all things organic and natural, sometimes they are hard to come by in this part of the world. Although most people in Thailand generally live a bit more naturally than those at home, people who believe, like I do, in organics are not as common, or so I thought until I met Café Pandau. A great little café owned by a beautiful Japanese woman who moved here after burning out on the intense winters of Amsterdam. Noriko immediately became one of my favorite people when she invited me to her Tango class later that week. Eventually we started talking about our backgrounds, how I ended up in Chiang Mai at The Garden of Hope and how she came to be a film maker/café owner. Noriko has the goal to not just be another café, but a place that gives back and cares for those around them.
One morning when I was eating a delicious breakfast at the café, Noriko cam bounding up to talk with me. She quickly explained how she had been asked by a friend to take over another café in her apartment building that was having problems and she desperately needed staff. So after many conversations with staff and possible candidates for her we finally found a girl the Garden of Hope has been working with for a while. A former bar girl with a dream of owning her own café is now secure in her income without having to prostitute herself. How long the position will last is uncertain, but it has been a blessing to be a bridge for two people in need.
Gingerbread:
Part of the equipping program at the Garden of Hope has been to train the women we work with in all things pertaining to hospitality and business development. So this holiday season the team has made hundreds of gingerbread house kits and cookie decorating kits. So I had the idea to buy a bunch of these kits and take them to an orphanage that I had visited with Lacie a month earlier. 42 girls, 7 gingerbread houses, 8dz cookies, huge smiles and many kids with a sugar high! A few of
my friends tagged along and we had a blast blessing the garden and the girls at Briana’s House of Joy. The girls were amazing and the event would not have been possible with out all of you. Thank you for your continued support of the work God is doing through me, it is truly incredible to be a part of.
Please continue to pray for the children and staff, funding for the programs, and clarity for myself as to what I should continue to do here… there are many possibilities but I want to be selective and purposeful with how I spend my time.
God Bless you all!
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
The Garden of Hope
Things have taken another turn in my life here in SE Asia and everything has confirmed that the steps I am taking are truly taken in faith. After finishing up with Love 146 a couple of weeks ago in Palawan, I headed north to Angeles City, PH with Lacie, where she will be an interning therapist for the RENEW Foundation, the only non-profit working to support the over 15,000 sexually exploited women. My time with RENEW, the girls that live in the shelter, and the staff that work to support them has left a mark on my life forever. While there the staff from an
Friday, October 9, 2009
Philippines: With the wind...
The journey of the past year of my life has been full of unexpected challenges and changes. From enduring engine failure while in the midst of a hurricane in the Caribbean Sea to waiting out two separate typhoons in the Philippines, things have stayed interesting to say the least. As storm systems move in and out, they serve to remind me that life also can change in an instant, with the strong winds of typhoon Parma blowing over the Philippine islands, so have they blown over the flow of my life and directed its course towards new horizons. After officially completing Module Two of the DTPA with Love 146, I had to do some serious evaluating of my current circumstances. Although the program is uniquely designed to create high quality aftercare workers and researchers, for me it is very much an introductory course. And so, after much prayer and seeking advice from family and friends, I have decided not to continue with the program.
The professors and Love 146 staff are some of the most incredible and beautiful people I have ever met, and I will always look back on my time living and studying within their care with great fondness. Further, it is because of the Love 146 programs that I am so inspired and driven to work directly in an aftercare setting. Love 146 has set the bar very high, and I hope to work with them again in the future. However, it is time for me to learn by doing and to put myself in a position to do so. One of the things that I have learned about where I fit in this huge multi-dimensional issue that is the commercial sexual exploitation of children, and their restoration, is that I have a lot to offer in the areas of personal and career development. For many survivors of CSEC one the basic and most insane issue they face is finding another way to make money besides prostitution. Prostitution is not the only option, but after years of being made to feel your value is merely based on how well you can sell yourself, it is hard for these women and children to see any hope. That is where I would like to step in by working with organizations that will provide practical skills and education that will enable survivors to thrive in new ways, living healthy lives and earning an income that they can feel proud of. I have experience teaching English and have applied for a few volunteer positions with organizations in Thailand. I am very hopeful about finding the right fit and know God is moving me every step of the way. Teaching English has been something I have fought for a long time, I really did not want to do it, and some how I had convinced myself that it feels like settling. However, being here, where the issue of CSEC is so prevalent and undeniable, English could be the lifesaver for so many individuals and a way for them to build confidence in themselves and a healthy future. Being a mentor, friend and teacher will be an honor and I would very much appreciate your thoughts and prayers for the right opportunity. Again I am so thankful for Love 146, who they are as an organization and how they have invested in me and now I finally feel ready to step out and find opportunities where I can serve. I will keep you posted as things develop and will need your prayers, love and support every step of the way.